Terry,
I was just thinking more about how it was with me when my husband died. It took me about a year before I could think about making changes in my life. If you love animals and don’t have a pet, give some thought to getting a dog or cat. My big dog Cody was such a comfort to me. When I was crying she crawl into my lap and she’d put her front legs around me. How soft her fur was to cry into.

Hang in there with us. As we’ve told you, it will get easier.
From my heart,

Hello Terry,
It has not been a very long time that you lost your precious Debbie, so you still feel the raw pain and grief. We cannot put a time on when it will get easier because we are all different. You won’t forget her, but it will get easier. It took me three years before I felt the healing when my husband died. TIME HEALS and when you’re able to, you’ll work WITH it and let it happen. Right now, cry WITH us. I think everyone of us who respond to your posts are here for you to talk to.
From my heart,

Terry,
I just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers were with you on the day that you said “so long” to Debbie. I was telling you we (your support family) are with you too. And it’s not good-bye, it is “so long” because you will one day be with her again. She is at peace now, she doesn’t have to suffer anymore.

For you Terry, ONE DAY AT A TIME sweet Jesus, Lord teach me to take one day at a time. If you work WITH the grief and not AGAINST it, it becomes bearable and you’ll be able to move forward. You can talk to her, her spirit can hear you.
From my heart,

Terry,
I am so very sorry to hear this. When I read that, my thoughts were OHHHHHH
he loved her so much. You will be in our prayers, please know that if you need a support group now, we are here, we are many strong shoulders to cry on. During a quiet time, just close your eyes and feel the hugs and comfort.

Hello,
Your wife will be in our prayers, just watch the posts and you’ll see that a chain; the links of your family here; is starting.