As the other’s have said, you’ve got to find the time to take care of yourself too, it’s not neglecting your mother. You’re probably going through what happens to us when we are overwhelmed, residuals surface. You have to find a little time for yourself. Buy a nice bubble bath and relax in the tub and have a good washing cry. Believe me, I know. I have CIDP, need help from my home care agency and I’m also caregiver to my invalid mother.