What an awesome thread!

Thanks so much, Ali, for bringing this back up. I have really learned a wealth of information here today. Thanks, Doug for the blunt, direct list, and for all the other coments. I hope there might be some new ideas posted.

I do have to give myself a pat on the back: I was at the foot of Jacob’s bed one day, and started to instinctively reach for his foot for a foot rub. Before I grabbed it I STOPPED and asked if it would feel good or not. 🙂 He said sometimes he likes it and sometimes it hurts, but that day it would hurt, so thanks for asking. Woohoo! I did something right!!!

Linda