My Family has to take a lot

My family has to take alot off of me it has effected me mentally because i was out going never stopped , my wife has stuck by my side and raised me and our four kids but things between us are getting bad. And on top of it all we were only married a yr just had a baby that was 3 mths old when I come down with GBS, she raised in the hospitals with us, and the 3 boys 7,8,9 yr olds that don’t understand , this has put a major dent on our family and relationship, Is there any suggestions to help.

Scott