I think you and your son did the right thing by going ahead with the wedding and if your nephew loved his family, he would have wanted you to do so. Just wait until you have a new grandchild and when you hold that baby and breathe in the smell of a new life your mind will be relieved that yes we did right.
We would all love to see the wedding pictures. You could mail some to someone to post them for you, or you could learn how to do it yourself. Remember how we used to enjoy posting gifs at holiday time and family photo’s.
Contact anyone of us who knows how to do it, Fireman Dave, Ken L, Jim C, Norb, Angelsecondclass (Cheryl) and myself. Cheryl learned how to post photo’s, but I’m waiting to see if she can post the gifs.