having this thing

Norb:
I couldn’t get on to your story and would like to read it-can you help?
what webpage if there is one?
Tell me, if you could have one wish-that your wife would understand one thing-what would it be? How does a caregiver give care without being a drama queen or a martyr?
We don not feel like martyrs but when someone compliments us on care-giving, it’s like a diss to the person who is ill and I don’t like it.
I didn’t know about the swallowing part…do you have that too?
How can a caregiver truly help emotionally?