I’m new to the forum as well….please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

I don’t know if it is possible in your case, but it sounds to me as if you need a new neurologist. I’ve received much support from mine, and our medical personnel are the best line of defense in any illness. They really do set the tone as far as our attitudes and recovery.

I am so sorry to hear about your sister’s passing. Why some have to suffer so much before they die I will never know. I hope your BIL is doing OK, I do believe she is out of pain finally & truly in a better place…
Pam