Do know that I’ll be pulling for you!

What you mite get out of psych consults depends on how good the psych is and IF you get along well w/him/her.
But, IF they’re asking the family to participate in some ways? It can be a good thing or expose a minefield of ’emotions’ long lost and forgotten yet resurrected. Soo…. in any meetings? Keep focused on this one ISSUE and how it affects/effects you and those around you. Don’t stray from that!
It’s HARD, and you can get thru it whole.
Hugs and faith in you! You are truly a stronger person than I am and I admit it freely! Your bravery keeps giving me hope. Hang in there!