Well anyway! All summer she has been calling wanting us to help her. We wired her some money but can’t do this every week because we have our own bills. She is living from place to place trying to survive and claims she stopped going to probation because she was so sick with the Crohns and didn’t have money to get there. But because we were not sure about her we have been calling around and asking questions. She has had several hospital stays.
Anyway! 33 days ago she landed in the hospital. They kept her two weeks and saw a serious problem and transfered her to University of Penn Hospital. She has 16 inches of small intestines that have ulcerated really bad and almost collasped. So she stayed in the hospital for 33 days. She needs surgery but the doctors told us it was just to risky right now and they started Remicade Chemo on her this week. Will need treatments the rest of her life. And will need surgery down the road! The doctors told us that she has been very lucky she didn’t die from this and has been sick a long time. She claims she was to sick to go see her probation officer and we do have proof that she has been chronically ill. So we contact the Probation Officer and tell him the situation. We are not trying to get her out of anything. But she needs help! All we want to do is get her transferred down here to NC because we can’t run two households at the same time. The probation officer is saying NO! He wants her in jail for 12 months because she stopped going to see him! I have been on the phone battling with this man for 33 days telling him what has been going on. He won’t let her leave the State. Doctors have said she will be disabled for quite some time possibly the rest of her life! And we all know how long it takes to get disability. All we are trying to do is get her transferred to another state and let us handle it from here so we can get her help the way she needs it! The man is being a total A Hole! You can’t even speak to him and he is not listening to us at all! She owes a fine because of this but has had no money and can’t work! We offered to pay the fine and he is still being a jerk!
She’s really not that bad of a kid. But she has issues that need attention. And now her health has gone bad. She wants to get her life straightened out but can’t up North. She needs her dad and is begging us to help her. We are wiring money to her so she can get transportation to the hospital to get her treatments. It’s just been one big mess! Lets just say she is life threatenin right now needing a surgery in the future and how can we be in two states at one time! My husband can’t risk his job taking off of work and I can’t travel up North. So we have a huge mess! Just a mess! This is why I have not been online in the forum. Our phone bills these past few months have been horrible! Me and my husband both just don’t know what to do!
And here are my two little messes! My grandbabies Haley and Hana! My pride and joy. Never thought I would live to see this day! But I did! And when I see them I have joy of having two beautiful grandchildren.
Well I guess that’s all! Just wanted to share a little bit about me to you all. Since I have gotten to see photo’s of many in here. I decided to let you meet me in person!
He got his haircut for his graduation. Whew! This is my husband beside me! Back on prednisone again but lowering dosage and was loosing weight again.
This was me 6 years ago right before my father died. He was Retired Army Sergeant. No longer as slim as I was many years back.
My 3 children: Christie, Rob and Cheri. Christie is now a Social Worker with 2 children. Rob is in the United States Navy and Cheri my baby is a School Teacher.
My son no longer has long hair and is in the United State Navy and works on a Nuclear Submarine. :0( He just got called back and has just left to go on 6 month sea duty. His wife Kate!
One more photo coming up in next section. My babies!